The positive effects on a child from having an involved and nurturing father are many.
They include beneficial impacts on the child’s happiness, social and academic success, self-esteem, and emotional stability.
» Respect Your Child’s Mother
A father and mother who respect each other provide a secure environment for their child. When children see their parents treating each other with respect, they will emulate this behavior, thereby, treating others with respect.
» Spend Time With Your Child
Spending quality time with your child is one of the most important building blocks in developing your child’s self-esteem.
» Talk To Your Child
Take the time to talk to your children about various subjects when everything is going right, not just when you have to be the disciplinarian.
» Discipline With Love
All children need guidance and discipline – not punishment. Teach your children that there are consequences for their actions, but discipline in a calm and fair manner.
» Be A Role Model
Fathers can teach their children what is important in life by demonstrating positive attributes.
» Be A Teacher
A father who teaches his children the difference between right and wrong and encourages them to always do their best will see his children make good choices.
» Have Family Mealtime
Sharing a meal together (breakfast, lunch, or dinner) can be an important part of a healthy family life. Take this time to listen to your children without the distraction of a TV, newspaper, or magazine.
» Read To Your Children
Begin reading to your children when they are infants. When they are older, encourage them to read to you. Reading with your child will not only increase your child’s understanding and thought processes, but will also provide you the opportunity to spend time together.
» Show Affection
Children need the security that comes from knowing they are wanted, accepted, and loved by their parents. Fathers need to feel comfortable and willing to hug their children every day.
» Realize That A Father’s Job Is Never Done
If a solid foundation has been built when the child was young, the additions to the father/child structure will always continue.